Do you have dating fatigue? Are you tired of looking but still want to meet someone? If you have tried blind dates; if you have attended many single’s events; and, if you have been on an Internet dating site for over a year, you may be in need of a break.
Becoming tired of dating can happen at any time. One minute, you may be loaded with dating possibilities, and the next minute… you just don’t care. Looking for your true love is hard work. It’s easy to get discouraged. Maybe it’s time to get a fresh perspective.
Being tired of dating happens to most people. It’s important to know that others like you have also suffered. When you are on a quest to find your soul mate, not just any person will do. You don’t want to compromise. It takes lots of work and determination. You are not alone in this process.
When you are tired of dating, review your list of requirements for a mate. Does he really have to be six foot two and three-fourths? Or can he just be “tall”? If so, right away, you’ve expanded your possibilities. Does the person have to be from your town? How about if they are within a fifty-mile radius? If so, you have more choices. If you met Mr. Perfect, and you had chemistry together and he had humor, honesty, and a great financial future, and he loved you like crazy, would you throw him away because he doesn’t appreciate
? Unless you own a vineyard, does this make sense? Renew and expand your requirements list.
Becoming tired of dating can happen if you are a person who winds herself up tightly before each date. If you are expecting each one to be “IT”, you will set yourself up for exhaustion. He will come along, but until he does, relax and enjoy each new person you meet. Look for what you can learn, and if the date goes better than that, you have a win.
Dating fatigue can happen when you don’t understand that there are literally millions and millions of singles looking for that someone special. If you keep working at meeting someone, sooner or later, you will. You won’t be single forever so take a minute to reflect on what you enjoy about your present status. Do the things NOW that you won’t be able to do so easily after you are a couple. Try a single’s cruise, or ski trip, or masked ball. Go and visit your friends and relatives whom you haven’t seen in ages and ages. Take lots of long baths, quiet walks, or interesting seminars. Don’t forget to enjoy the moment.
You need a holiday from dating tiredness. Just as you take a vacation from your profession, you need a break from the emotional wear and tear of dating. Find a new hobby or sport. Take some lessons or classes. Hire a coach to help you polish up your life or style or attractiveness. When you are excited to wake up in the morning because you can’t wait to go mountain biking, gorilla watching, butterfly catching, or horseback riding, you have an energy that is sexy, charming and impossible to stay away from. When you start dating again, you will be tanked up-not running on empty.
If you feel tired and fatigued from dating, maybe it’s time to think about others. Unfortunate adults, children or animals are struggling day-to-day to survive. You could be the one to make a difference in their lives. Furthermore, compassionate, caring people are irresistible human beings.
Take a break from dating, get some rest, and get ready to enjoy dating again. If you do the above, you may find your soul mate sooner than you think.