Online dating websites can be a very crowded environment and standing out from the crowd can be really hard. With thousands of men and women around, how do you attract the right person to read your profile and respond? How do you stand out from the crowd? Although you can be totally wacky and be outrageous just to get attention this might not be the answer.
Its true that weird and wacky profiles get a lot of attention and get a lot of reaction but what most people don’t realize is that this might actually be a bad thing. The real purpose of online dating is to find the right person and not to mere become popular. many of the most popular profiles just attract the wrong people.
So, what does it take to create the prefect profile that gets a lot of the right attention? here are the 3 most important parts.
Without a doubt, your profile picture is the most important and the number one reason why people will click to read more. Its very important that you try different pictures to see which ones get the best response. Also, don;t pick your own photo. Ask a friend or even better, a stranger, to help you pick the best one.
Your “slogan” is the caption to your picture and its meant to be a one sentence summary of who you are or what you are all about. Once your picture caught someone’s attention the next thing they will read is your slogan.
3. Your Bio
Once you got someone interested in your photo and you got them so far to read your slogan, now they will read your bio which is really there to tells them who you are, what you like and what you are looking for. Its really important that you keep this quite general and upbeat and as a rule of thumb its better to focus only on what you like. Never start ranting about everything you hate in life.
As you craft these 3 elements of your dating profile its important that you always remain true to who you really are. Never say something just for attention or because you think that its what people might be interested in. Always keep it real. You’d be surprised how much it pays off.