If you are like most singles, you are SO over being single. You’re ready to share your life with a special someone, the someone you really deserve. But they seem to be no where in sight, and it’s getting a little hard to stay upbeat and motivated to keep looking.
But don’t give up on love just yet- your perfect partner is waiting for you just ahead, with a few quick shifts.
Sounds simple, but I’m serious. Have you been out lately and taken notice of how sour people’s expressions are- on the street, at the office, in line at the grocery?. And the worst offenders? Singles standing around at singles events!
Start smiling and suddenly YOU are the one bright spot on the horizon and believe me, people will start noticing. And appreciating. A smile is like opening a little door, it invites others to approach you and start a conversation.
The best part of smiling all the time, wherever you go? You’ll start feeling happy- for no reason, or for every reason. Science shows us that the simple act of smiling triggers the brain to release happy-hormones- which actually boost your mood. Which in turn, makes you look more attractive. A double-whammy for attraction purposes! You’ll be glowing- and that glow will draw in good things.
Ever notice how silent and lonely the world can seem, everyone rushing around somewhere, alone in their little worlds? It breeds a feeling that the world is filled with walls, that you’ll never break through to find love.
So, start breaking down those walls by saying hi to everyone you walk past. People don’t expect it anymore- so you’re offering a feel-good gift to the world. It’ll be like making little deposits in the relationship karma bank: What you put in, you are going to get back, soon!
Plus, it starts breaking down both the psychological and physical barriers between you and other people- creating a sense of openness, hope, and possibility. All attraction magnets! Suddenly the world feels full of options, when moments before there were none.
Dating grinds to a halt when you get stuck in ruts, same thing- day in, day out. Your world shrinks to the size of a dime- hard to find love on the head of a dime! So break free and build the courage that love requires by making yourself do something that’s slightly uncomfortable, every day. When you stretch outside your comfort zone, your world expands and suddenly all things become possible- even finding the love of your life!
Try these simple, but powerful attraction boosters and let me know how it goes!